the previous article talked about why you shouldnt be happy nor unhappy this article will surely have another opinion as you might end up happy the article before talked about WHAT should you do in the light of philosophy (not being happy nor sad) this article will talk about what matters to a human being and in fact it cares about you as a whole you the human being the sad the unhappy or any other negative emotion that is verses happiness while still talking a semi philosophical approach and semi
advice like advocate approach this will actually talk about WHY a human being isnt happy and tries to take care of that so lets go!
the reason iam writing this is that i have been unhappy due to the fact of god existing i felt like iam not living by any means in control and thus god picked me everything starting from who iam to who i feel the way to be happy here though is to let go of your selfishness and to actually forget about the will to control yourself and be happy without god interfering as you might have guessed the next point that stands up for this you want to be happy and pick your happiness without god interfering (BECAUSE YOU WANT TO LIVE THE EXPERIENCE) to be the experience to be the one who succeeds well i promise you once you learn how to leave that attitude you will be on the highway for you happiness there are reasons to be sad actually in this world will tell you how
a human being as mentioned in hadith has his core based up on him wanting to get more
yes TO GET MORE and i know you looked at the other big words i said before (BECAUSE YOU WANT TO LIVE THE EXPERIENCE) i wrote those in capital huge big words coz they are related
you see what is the point of getting more without you caring to live the experience?
moreover WHY WOULD YOU ACTUALLY CARE TO DO SOMETHING IF ITS NOT YOURS?
this unveils the next idea HUMANS LIKE TO DO STUFF ON THEIR OWN
this lead us to the following thought hmmm BUT I FAILED GETTING WHAT I WANTED WHEN I TRIED HARD WHILE DOING THE STUFF ON MY OWN!
did you notice how selfish you were? you didnt mention god not for once!
i would like you to review the big capital letters while thinking of god
here are they written again:
1.(BECAUSE YOU WANT TO LIVE THE EXPERIENCE)
2.TO GET MORE
3. NOT YOURS
4.WHY WOULD YOU ACTUALLY CARE TO DO SOMETHING IF ITS NOT YOURS?
5. HUMANS LIKE TO DO STUFF ON THEIR OWN
6. BUT I FAILED GETTING WHAT I WANTED WHEN I TRIED HARD WHILE DOING THE STUFF ON MY OWN!
if you read those again you would notice your thought process you want to be on your own and get more while realizing that god is the one that gives and while wanting to be on your own you actually dont want to do it at all since god does it for you (CONTRADICTION OCCURS) that not good for you the real happiness lies when you actually stop being selfish and actually live for god and with that i dont mean you have to worship him(not totally by all means) but means that you actually have to think of god as the one giving you and stop being so selfish once you succeed on something what i mean is in concurrence to the previous article is to be neutral and not be unhappy coz god is the one who gave you your success and to live just like that just for the sake of living and not for your humanely core that asks you to achieve success just for the sake of getting more but to live coz god wants you to live (here arises a question that is immaterial to this subject even tho related to it immensely why did god create us? imoho its for us to worship him) however this is not the case
the question iam looking for here is what do i want from god? and the answer is very simple you want to live the way he wanted you to live and that is the essence of happiness to a human being
but wait isnt this a cliche? well no there is more iam telling you and want you to add to it so that you dont feel bad every time you fail as well as living the way he wanted you to live you also need to live and get what he gives and to live according to what he wants not what you want with that i mean to not expect anything but what he would give to anticipate what he could give and to try to see what he would give that is by all means the way of happiness
